10 Jun

In most relationships, it is the man that is pursuing his wife and flirting with her, but have you ever considered how important it is to flirt with your husband to let him know you are also attracted and interested in him?

Flirting with your husband can help to keep the spark alive in your relationship and add some fun and excitement to your daily routine. Plus it will drive him crazy in a good way. Here are 15 ways for a wife to flirt with her husband:

  1. Send flirty text messages: Send your husband a flirty text message during the day to let him know that you are thinking of him. You can find some good ones and do it through a secure chat feature in the Ultimate Intimacy App.
  2. Dress up for him: Take the time to dress up for your husband, even if you are just staying in. This will show him that you care about your appearance and want to look good for him.
  3. Give him compliments: Make an effort to give your husband compliments regularly. Tell him how attractive he is or how much you appreciate him.
  4. Use playful touch: Use playful touch, such as a playful tap on the shoulder or a quick squeeze of the hand, to show your affection for your husband.
  5. Leave love notes: Leave little love notes for your husband in unexpected places, such as in his lunchbox or on the bathroom mirror.
  6. Initiate physical contact: Take the initiative to initiate physical contact with your husband, such as a hug or a kiss, foreplay or sexual intimacy.
  7. Plan a surprise date night: Surprise your husband by planning a date night that is tailored to his interests. This will show him that you care about his preferences and want to spend quality time together. You may also like a blog article: THE DOS & DONT’S OF DATE NIGHT (5 HELPFUL TIPS!)
  8. Make eye contact: Make eye contact with your husband during conversation to show him that you are engaged and interested in what he has to say.
  9. Playfully tease him: Playful teasing can be a fun way to flirt with your husband and show him that you are still playful and fun.
  10. Use playful names: Use cute and affectionate names when addressing your husband to show him that you care for him deeply.
  1. Show interest in his hobbies: Take an interest in your husband’s hobbies and passions. This will make him feel valued and appreciated.
  2. Laugh together: Make an effort to find humor in your daily life and enjoy a good laugh with your husband.
  3. Cook him his favorite meal: Surprise your husband by cooking his favorite meal. This will show him that you care about his likes and dislikes and want to make him happy.
  4. Touch his arm or shoulder: Lightly touch your husband’s arm or shoulder during conversation to show him that you are interested and engaged.
  5. Be playful: Have fun and be playful with your husband, whether it is through playful banter or silly games. This will help to keep your relationship lighthearted and fun. You could play a board game where the winner picks the position or a back rub etc.

You may also like our podcast episode 152. Why It’s So Important For The Lower Desire Spouse To Initiate Sex (Once In A While)… And 12 Fun Ways To Do So!

In conclusion, these simple things to help the flirting with your husband can be a fun and effective way to keep the spark alive in your relationship. By making an effort to show your affection and interest in your husband, you can strengthen your bond and enjoy a more fulfilling and satisfying relationship.

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