06 Apr

If you have listened to our podcast, or our story on why we created the Ultimate Intimacy app, you already know that we believe that communication is EVERYTHING in a marriage!

Honesty, love, transparency, selflessness, of course, these are all important. But one factor that seems to be talked about much less is communication and one of the most important ones! Communication is crucial to a marriage. If you love your spouse, it is important to tell them. If you trust your spouse, communicate it to them. If you can communicate honestly,¬†your marriage has a really good chance of being healthy and very happy. Communication is something that takes time to learn, but once you figure it out in your marriage, it get’s easier to express yourself and understand your spouse.

Even after 19 years of marriage, Nick and I still find so many topics to discuss and talk about. It keeps marriage fun and exciting.

Here are 50 conversation starters to talk about today to deepen your connection and intimacy.

  • Define yourself in 3 words
  • What do you enjoy doing by yourself?
  • What plans do we have for the future?
  • How should we best manage our financial needs?
  • If you could have any dinner guest over, who would it be?
  • What is the worst food you have ever eaten?
  • If all your wishes were granted today, how would you describe your life in 5 years from now?
  • What is your worst memory of Jr High School?
  • Do you like who you are now?
  • What is your favorite book you have ever read?
  • Do you believe that the present is really better than the past?
  • Would you like it if you never had to work again?
  • What were your favorite games as a kid?
  • When do you feel most loved by me?
  • What are the 3 happiest moments of your life?
  • When am I the most attractive to you?
  • If you could trade your job, what would you want to do?
  • What would you do if you won the lottery?
  • What is your biggest regret?
  • If you had a yacht, what would you name it?
  • When did you first know you loved me?
  • What are heroes to you?
  • Are there any predictable things that you love about me?
  • What do you love most about the world? dislike?
  • What was the worst hairstyle you ever had?
  • What fun tradition did you have when you were little?
  • Who is your favorite relative?
  • Who was your favorite teacher?
  • What was your most memorable birthday party you ever had?
  • What do you consider your most embarrassing moment in life?
  • What position is your favorite for making love?
  • Where would you like us to go for our next date?
  • What do you love most about me?
  • What do you love most about us as a couple?
  • What part of my body do you find the most attractive?
  • What are you core values?
  • What are you most passionate about in life?
  • What is your favorite book you have ever read?
  • What is your favorite game to play as a couple?
  • How are we different?
  • Would you consider yourself a realistic or idealistic?
  • What does your retirement dream day look like?
  • What is your dream car?
  • Where is your favorite pizza restaurant? pasta?
  • What is one present that you secretly hated?
  • If you were forced to get a tattoo, what would it be?
  • What is the one thing you wish you were way better at?
  • When are you the happiest?
  • How can I help you be a better person?
  • If you could only keep 5 facebook friends, who would they be?
  • What is your favorite movie snack?
  • If we could do one home remodel project, what would it be?
  • what is your favorite childhood memory?
  • What makes you the most angry?
  • What is your pet peeve?
  • If you died tonight, what you would regret not doing in life?
  • Describe life after death.

Want more conversation topics? Download the Ultimate Intimacy app free in the app stores!

More than 250+ conversation starters in the topics including: spiritual, family, intimacy, financial, romance, and miscellaneous.

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