Gift Wrapped

Gift Wrapped is a position that brings spouses close together, both physically and emotionally. This position allows for deep penetration and provides ample opportunities for touch and control. It’s perfect for couples who want to experience a close and intimate connection during lovemaking.

Getting Into The Position

The wife lies on her back on the bed or floor with her legs slightly open, her knees bent, and pulled up toward her chest. The husband lies on top of her, wrapping his arms underneath her knees to help keep her legs close to her chest. This close positioning allows for maximum contact between the spouses. The wife can hold her husband’s bottom with her hands, assisting with control during the motion.

How to Perform the Position

The husband gently penetrates his wife while she uses her hands on his bottom to help guide and control the in-and-out motion. This allows the wife to take a more active role in managing the pace and depth, while the husband can focus on the rhythm and movement. The close, intimate contact makes this position highly emotionally connecting for both spouses.

Benefits of Gift Wrapped

Deep Penetration
The position allows for deep penetration, which can be pleasurable for both spouses, especially as the husband is close to his wife’s pelvis.

Enhanced Physical Connection
The close proximity of the spouses in this position helps enhance emotional and physical connection, with each spouse able to feel the other’s body more intimately.

Control for Both Spouses
While the husband is in control of penetration, the wife can assist by holding and guiding him, making this a position where both spouses have agency over their pleasure.

Increased Sensory Contact
The wife’s hands on her husband’s bottom allow for increased sensory contact and connection, making this position an excellent opportunity for more physical affection.

Physical Considerations and Adjustments

For the Wife
This position may place some strain on the lower back due to her knees being pulled toward her chest. Placing a pillow under her lower back or hips can reduce any discomfort and improve comfort for extended periods.

For the Husband
The husband will need to support his weight on his elbows and arms, which can be tiring. If necessary, he can shift some of his weight to his knees or use his arms to stabilize his body while maintaining a rhythm that’s comfortable for both spouses.

Tips to Enhance the Experience

Communicate
Make sure both spouses are comfortable and communicate throughout the experience to adjust pace, depth, or angle as necessary.

Experiment with Speed and Rhythm
While the wife helps guide the motion, both spouses can experiment with varying the speed and rhythm to find what feels most pleasurable for both.

Add Extra Sensual Touch
The husband can gently stroke his wife’s arms, face, or breasts while making love, adding to the sensual connection of the moment.

Use Eye Contact
Maintaining eye contact during this position can deepen the emotional connection between spouses and enhance intimacy.

Challenges and How to Overcome Them

Neck and Back Discomfort for the Wife
If the wife experiences strain in her neck or back, she can place a pillow or cushion under her head or hips for support.

Arm and Shoulder Fatigue for the Husband
The husband may experience arm fatigue from holding his weight up for an extended period. He can take short breaks or shift his weight to his knees to reduce strain.

Finding the Right Angle
If the angle feels uncomfortable for either spouse, adjusting the wife’s legs (slightly lowering or raising them) or the husband’s position can improve the angle and comfort.

Why Gift Wrapped Works Well for Couples

Strong Emotional and Physical Connection
This position allows for close physical and emotional connection, as both spouses are intimately involved in guiding the movement and rhythm of lovemaking.

Active Participation for Both
While the husband is primarily in control of penetration, the wife can actively participate in adjusting the rhythm and depth, ensuring both spouses are in tune with each other’s needs.

Enhanced Intimacy
The closeness of this position, combined with the ability to control the pace, creates a powerful sense of intimacy and trust between spouses.

Who Will Enjoy This Position?

Gift Wrapped is great for couples who:

• Enjoy deep penetration and close physical contact during lovemaking.
• Want a position that allows both spouses to actively engage in the rhythm and control.
• Appreciate a highly intimate experience where communication and touch are key.

Final Thoughts

Gift Wrapped is a position that offers deep connection and intimacy, with the opportunity for both spouses to actively engage in the rhythm and control of lovemaking. The closeness and mutual participation make it a great choice for couples seeking to strengthen both physical and emotional bonds. By adjusting to each other’s needs and preferences, this position can lead to a highly satisfying and intimate experience for both spouses.