25 May

The term “manipulative” refers to a person who tries to control others, often without their knowledge or consent, by using deceptive tactics. Manipulative spouses are skilled at using emotional outbursts, smooth talking, denial, lying, being nice, avoiding financial responsibility, being critical, playing innocent, making you feel bad, playing the victim, and ignoring you before apologizing.

Let’s explore these traits in more detail.

Emotional Outburst

A manipulative spouse can use their emotions to manipulate others. They may throw a tantrum, cry or become angry to get what they want. If you notice that a spouse uses their emotions to control you or those around them, it’s a red flag.

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Smooth Talker

A manipulative spouse is often a smooth talker. They know how to use their words to get what they want. They can be persuasive and charming, which can be hard to resist. But be careful; They may be using these skills to manipulate you.

State of Denial

A manipulative spouse may refuse to acknowledge their behavior or take responsibility for their actions. They may try to make you feel like you’re the one in the wrong, even if they are the one at fault. If they consistently deny their actions and try to blame others, it’s a warning sign.

Good at Lying

Manipulative spouses are often skilled at lying. They may be able to deceive you and those around them with ease. It can be difficult to spot a lie, but if you catch them in a lie, it’s a sign that they may be manipulating you.

Being Nice

Manipulative spouses can be very nice. They may do things for you, be affectionate and show interest in your life. However, it’s important to be aware that this behavior may be a way for them to control you. If they are overly nice and want something in return, it’s a sign that they may be manipulating you.

No Financial Support

A manipulative spouse may not be willing to contribute financially. They may expect you to pay for everything, even if they have the means to contribute. If they are not willing to support themselves, it’s a sign that she may be manipulating you for financial gain.

Being a Critic

A manipulative spouse may criticize you or others. They may do this to make themselves feel superior or to control you. If they’re always critical, it’s a warning sign.

Playing Innocent

A manipulative spouse may play innocent to avoid taking responsibility for their actions. They may act like they didn’t know what they were doing was wrong or try to blame someone else. If they consistently play innocent, it’s a sign that they may be manipulating you.

Make You Feel Bad

A manipulative spouse may try to make you feel bad about yourself. They may insult you or belittle you to make you feel inferior. If they consistently make you feel bad about yourself, it’s a warning sign.

Playing the Victim

A manipulative spouse may play the victim to gain sympathy or to avoid taking responsibility for their actions. They may try to make you feel sorry for them or make you feel guilty. If they consistently play the victim, it’s a sign that they may be manipulating you.

Ignoring then Apologizing

A manipulative spouse may ignore you or give you the silent treatment when they’re upset. Then, they may apologize and act like nothing happened. This behavior can be a way for them to control you or avoid taking responsibility for their actions. If they consistently ignore you and then apologize, it’s a warning sign.

In conclusion, manipulative behavior can be present in both men and women, and it can be difficult to spot. However, if you notice these traits such as emotional outbursts, smooth talking, denial, lying, being overly nice, avoiding financial responsibility, being overly critical, playing innocent, making you feel bad, playing the victim, or ignoring you before apologizing, it could be a sign that they are manipulating you. It’s important to be aware of these behaviors and to set boundaries to protect yourself from being taken advantage of. Remember, a healthy relationship is built on trust, honesty, and mutual respect, and manipulative behavior has no place in it.

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