Sittin

The Sittin position is a more relaxed, yet intimate way for spouses to connect, offering both closeness and comfort while still allowing for pleasure and mutual engagement.

Getting Into the Position

1. The husband sits comfortably in a chair, making sure his feet are flat on the ground for stability.
2. The wife sits on his lap, with her back facing his chest, her legs on either side of him.
3. The wife leans forward slightly, adjusting her posture to a safe and comfortable angle.

How to Do It

• The husband penetrates his wife from behind while she leans forward to ensure comfort and stability.
• The wife should be mindful of her posture and not lean too quickly, as this could cause discomfort or strain.
• While making love, the husband can give his wife a back or shoulder rub, helping her relax and adding to the intimate connection.

Why It Works

• Comfort and Stability: The seated position provides a stable base for both spouses, allowing them to maintain a comfortable and intimate connection.
• Ease of Movement: The wife can adjust her body to find the right angle, while the husband can maintain control over the depth and pace of penetration.
• Massage Benefits: The husband’s ability to give a back and shoulder rub enhances the experience, helping both spouses feel relaxed and deeply connected.

Benefits of Sittin

• Intimacy and Comfort: The close body contact makes this position perfect for couples who enjoy physical affection, while the sitting nature keeps things relaxed and easy.
• Flexibility: The wife can lean at different angles to adjust the experience, giving both spouses the chance to guide the rhythm and depth of their connection.
• Relaxation: The husband’s back and shoulder massage adds a layer of relaxation, reducing any potential tension in the body.

Tips for Success

• Posture: Make sure the wife maintains a stable angle while leaning forward to avoid strain or discomfort. Gentle adjustments can help.
• Communication: It’s essential to communicate throughout the experience to ensure both spouses are comfortable and enjoying themselves.
• Hands-on Interaction: The husband can use his hands for added pleasure, whether it’s touching the wife’s body or providing additional stimulation.

Challenges and Solutions

• Leaning Too Far: If the wife leans forward too much, she could lose balance or feel discomfort. Make sure to find a stable position and adjust slowly.
• Lower Back Strain: Sitting for extended periods might cause some strain. Take breaks as needed or use pillows for added support under the wife’s lower back.

Conclusion

The Sittin position offers a blend of intimacy, comfort, and relaxation, ideal for spouses who want to enjoy a close connection with the added benefit of a back or shoulder massage. With the right adjustments, it provides a fulfilling and pleasurable experience for both spouses.