20 May

Sometimes it can be challenging to keep the conversations interesting and fun in marriage. It’s easy to get stuck in a routine of talking about the same things over and over, which can lead to boredom and disinterest, causing less conversations together. But fear not, because there are many ways to make your conversations fun and exciting again, just like when you were first dating! Here are some tips to help you spruce up your conversations in marriage.

Play games together

One way to make your conversations more fun is to play games together. You can play board games, card games, or even video games. Playing games together can be a great way to bond and create new memories. Plus, it can be a fun way to pass the time when you’re stuck inside on a rainy day. Often times playing games can get fun and even funny conversations going.

Some of our greatest conversations and funny experiences have happened when we are playing board games together!

Share your dreams and aspirations

Another way to make your conversations more interesting is to share your dreams and aspirations with each other. Talk about your goals and what you hope to achieve in the future. You can also discuss your bucket list and the things you want to do together. Sharing your dreams and aspirations can help you both get excited about the future and create new goals together.

Having those dreams and aspirations also encourage good discussions on how to accomplish those dreams, and the things you need to do to get there.

Discuss your favorite memories

Talking about your favorite memories together can be a great way to reminisce and create new memories. You can talk about your favorite vacations, the first time you met, or even your favorite meals together. Sharing your favorite memories can help you appreciate your relationship more and create new traditions together.

Try new things together

Trying new things together can be a great way to create new conversations and experiences. You can try new hobbies, take a cooking class together, or even plan a weekend getaway to a new city. Doing new things together can help you both step out of your comfort zones and create new memories together.

Ask thought-provoking questions

Asking thought-provoking questions can be a great way to spark interesting conversations. You can ask each other questions like, “If you could travel back in time, where would you go?” or “If you could have any superpower, what would it be?” These types of questions can help you learn more about each other and create new conversations. Here are some great conversation starters that have helped MANY couples engage a lot more.

  1. Are you happy in our marriage? Do you feel likew e could have a better marriage?
  2. Do you fully trust me? Is there anything we should talk about when it comes to trust?
  3. What goals do you have for improving our intimacy? Emotional and Sexual.
  4. Are there any past conflicts we need to resolve?
  5. Do you feel like you can communicate with me openly?
  6. Are you willing to make big or little changes in our marriage to make it even better?

You can also check out hundreds of more conversations starters and games that will help you get the conversation going, covering many topics such as intimacy, romance, spiritual, finances and others on the Ultimate Intimacy App for free!

Share something funny

Sharing something funny can be a great way to make your conversations more lighthearted and fun. You can share a funny meme or a funny story from your day. Laughing together can help you both feel more relaxed and happy.

In conclusion, there are many ways to make your conversations more fun in marriage. Playing games together, sharing your dreams and aspirations, discussing your favorite memories, trying new things together, asking thought-provoking questions, and sharing something funny are all great ways to create new conversations and memories. Remember to keep an open mind and have fun!

Once you start having those great conversations again, it will become even easier to continue to have them. There is so much more you can learn about each other as well 🙂

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