Finding your sexy state of mind isn’t just about physical appearance or bedroom techniques; it’s about tapping into a mindset that celebrates sensuality, confidence, and connection.
When your spouse is confident, that is sexy. Whether you’ve been married for years or are newlyweds, cultivating a sexy state of mind can reignite the spark and deepen intimacy with your spouse. We just did a great podcast titled: 284. 15 Ways To Be More Attractive To Your Spouse.
In this episode we talk about the 15 ways to be more attractive to your spouse. Do we get ready for them and look good on date nights, or put forth and effort, or do we go out looking like we just got done waking up from a 3 day nap? Some of us do 🙂
Do we take care of our hygiene, are we exercising and trying to stay in shape? Do we have positive attitudes and treat our spouse good?
It is all about putting forth effort in our relationships. When we put forth effort, it shows we care. Join us for this episode on the 15 ways to be more attractive.
Now, let’s get back to the article. Here’s how you can unlock that elusive state of mind and bring passion back into your marriage.
Embrace Self-Confidence: Confidence is undeniably attractive. Embrace your unique qualities, strengths, and flaws, knowing that true sexiness comes from within. Appreciate your body for all it does for you and exude confidence in your appearance and abilities.
Prioritize Self-Care: Taking care of yourself is essential for feeling sexy and confident. Invest time in activities that make you feel good, whether it’s exercising, pampering yourself with a spa day, or indulging in hobbies that bring you joy.
Flirt with Your Spouse: Flirting isn’t just for the dating phase—it’s an essential tool for keeping the spark alive in marriage. Playful banter, compliments, and teasing can reignite desire and create anticipation for intimate moments with your spouse. There are so many great ways to flirt as a couple. Check out this article The Art of Flirting: Keeping the Spark Alive in Marriage.
Communicate Your Desires: Open communication is key to a satisfying sex life. Talk to your spouse about your desires, fantasies, and preferences, and encourage them to do the same.
Being honest and vulnerable fosters intimacy and strengthens your connection. Check out this great article titled: Why You Need Good Communication In The Bedroom.
Set the Mood: Create a seductive atmosphere to set the stage for intimacy. Dim the lights, light scented candles, and play soft music to create a romantic ambiance that stimulates the senses and enhances arousal.
Engage in Foreplay: Foreplay is essential for building anticipation and heightening arousal. Explore each other’s bodies with kisses, caresses, and gentle touches, focusing on pleasure and connection before moving to more intimate activities.
Dress the Part: Put effort into your appearance by wearing outfits that make you feel sexy and confident. Whether it’s lingerie, a tailored suit, or your favorite dress, dressing up can boost your self-esteem and set the tone for a sexy evening with your spouse.
Sensualize Everyday Moments: Find opportunities to infuse sensuality into your everyday life. Whether it’s cooking a romantic dinner together, sharing a bubble bath, or giving each other massages, embracing sensual experiences strengthens your bond and keeps the passion alive.
Explore New Activities Together: Step outside of your comfort zone and try new activities together that ignite passion and excitement. Whether it’s dancing lessons, a couples’ yoga class, or a weekend getaway, exploring new experiences together strengthens your connection and creates lasting memories.
Explore new things in and out of the bedroom. Try a new sex position, game, or sex toy to spice things up! Check out our clean, non graphic shop for some amazing products.
Focus on the Present Moment: In our busy lives, it’s easy to get caught up in distractions and worries. Practice mindfulness by focusing on the present moment during intimate encounters with your spouse. Let go of stress and distractions, and immerse yourself fully in the experience.
Laugh Together: Laughter is a powerful aphrodisiac that fosters intimacy and connection. Find opportunities to laugh and have fun with your spouse, whether it’s watching a comedy show, reminiscing about funny memories, or sharing inside jokes.
Express Gratitude: Take the time to express gratitude for your spouse and the love you share. Acknowledge their efforts, kindness, and support, and let them know how much you appreciate them both in and out of the bedroom.
Be Playful and Adventurous: Keep the excitement alive by being playful and adventurous with your spouse. Try new things, experiment with role-play or fantasy, and keep an open mind to new experiences that enhance your intimacy.
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Prioritize Intimacy: Make intimacy a priority in your marriage by setting aside dedicated time for connection and passion. Whether it’s scheduling regular date nights or planning spontaneous romantic gestures, prioritizing intimacy strengthens your bond and keeps the flame burning bright.
If you have to, schedule it! So many couples make excuses as to why they aren’t being sexually intimate.
Practice Self-Love: Cultivate a healthy relationship with yourself by practicing self-love and self-care. Treat yourself with kindness and compassion, and prioritize your own needs and desires to feel more confident and empowered in your marriage.
By incorporating these strategies into your marriage, you and your spouse can tap into a sexy state of mind that enhances passion, intimacy, and connection. Remember, unlocking your sexy side is about embracing confidence, vulnerability, and authenticity—all of which deepen your bond and create a fulfilling and satisfying sex life with your spouse.
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