01 Mar

Love, that beautiful and complex emotion, has the power to transform our lives in profound ways. When you’re deeply in love with your spouse, every moment feels richer, every experience feels more meaningful, and every challenge feels surmountable.

But how do you know if what you’re feeling is true love? Here are 10 unmistakable signs that you’re head over heels for your spouse:

You Can’t Stop Thinking About Them: From the moment you wake up to the moment you drift off to sleep, your spouse is on your mind. Their presence fills your thoughts, and you find yourself daydreaming about them throughout the day.

Their Happiness Means Everything to You: You derive immense joy from seeing your spouse happy and fulfilled. Their smile lights up your world, and you go out of your way to support them in achieving their goals and aspirations.

Unselfishness it one of the true signs of love. Instead of thinking about yourself all the time, you are more concerned with how they feel and their happiness.

You Feel Complete When You’re Together: Whether you’re sharing a quiet moment at home or embarking on a grand adventure, being with your spouse makes you feel whole and content. Their presence is like a soothing balm to your soul.

You’re Willing to Compromise: Love is about finding a balance between your needs and the needs of your spouse. You’re willing to compromise and make sacrifices for the sake of your relationship, knowing that your spouse’s happiness is worth it.

You Respect and Admire Them: You have a deep respect for your spouse as an individual, admiring their strengths, talents, and qualities. You’re proud to be associated with them and often find yourself in awe of their accomplishments.

You Can Be Your True Self Around Them: In their presence, you feel safe, accepted, and loved for who you truly are. You can let down your guard and be vulnerable, knowing that your spouse will always support and cherish you.

You Prioritize Their Needs: When making decisions, big or small, you consider your spouse’s feelings and preferences. Their happiness and well-being are among your top priorities, and you strive to create a nurturing and supportive environment for them.

You Share a Deep Emotional Connection: Your bond with your spouse goes beyond the physical; it’s rooted in a profound emotional connection. You understand each other on a deeper level, and you’re there for each other through thick and thin.

You’re In Sync: Whether it’s finishing each other’s sentences or knowing exactly what the other person needs without them having to say a word, you and your spouse are in sync. You share a strong connection that transcends words and gestures.

You Can’t Imagine Life Without Them: The thought of living life without your spouse by your side is unthinkable. They’ve become an integral part of your world, and you can’t envision a future that doesn’t include them.

You Share A Deep Sexual Connection: Sexual intimacy is a very important aspect of the relationship. You both prioritize it and connect intimately as a couple. Here’s what a deep sexual connection might look like in your relationship:

  • Open Communication: You and your spouse feel comfortable discussing your sexual desires, fantasies, and boundaries openly and without judgment. This open dialogue allows you to understand each other’s needs and preferences, leading to a more fulfilling sexual relationship.
  • Exploration and Adventure: You’re both willing to explore new things together and try new experiences in the bedroom. Whether it’s experimenting with different positions, introducing toys, or exploring fantasies, you approach sexual intimacy with a sense of curiosity and adventure.

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  • Mutual Satisfaction: You prioritize each other’s pleasure and satisfaction during sexual encounters. This means paying attention to your your spouses cues, communicating what feels good, and ensuring that they feel fulfilled and satisfied after intimacy.
  • Emotional Connection: Your sexual encounters are not just physical; they’re deeply emotional experiences that strengthen your bond as a couple. You feel a profound sense of closeness and intimacy during sex, and it serves as a way for you to connect on a deeper level with your spouse.
  • Spontaneity and Playfulness: You embrace spontaneity and playfulness in your sexual relationship, keeping things exciting and fun. Whether it’s surprising your spouse with a romantic gesture or indulging in spontaneous lovemaking, you keep the spark alive by keeping things fresh and unpredictable.
  • Respect and Consent: You respect each other’s boundaries and always prioritize consent in your sexual encounters. You understand that consent is essential, and you never pressure or coerce your spouse into doing anything they’re not comfortable with.

Being in love with your spouse is a beautiful journey filled with joy, growth, and endless possibilities. If you recognize these signs in your relationship, consider yourself lucky to have found a love that’s truly special and enduring. Cherish each moment together and nurture the bond that you share, for true love is a precious gift that should be cherished and celebrated every day.

You may also enjoy this podcast episode titled: 165. The Reasons Couples Fall “Out” Of Love… And How Not To Let It Happen To You.

Why do so many couples fall “out” of love in marriage? We know the divorce rate is near 50% so chances are many couples that are listening to this podcast and feel they have a happy marriage could unfortunately end up in divorce.  But that doesn’t need to happen if you understand the reasons this happens and what you can do in your relationship to not let it happen to you.

In this episode Nick and Amy talk with Grant and Stephanie with Forever With Purpose about the main reasons couples fall “out” of love, and what you can do to not let it happen in your marriage.

If you haven’t already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.comto find “Ultimate Intimacy” in your marriage. It’s FREE to download and so much fun!

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