03 Nov

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Parenthood is a remarkable journey, filled with love, joy, and countless challenges. While your children are at the center of your world, it’s essential to remember that your marriage should also be a top priority.

Maintaining a strong relationship is not only beneficial for you but also sets a powerful example for your children. In this article, we’ll discuss some crucial boundaries parents should set to ensure a harmonious and fulfilling marriage while raising kids.

1. Don’t Allow Your Kids to Sleep in Your Bed

While it may be tempting to let your children snuggle up in your bed, it’s important to establish boundaries when it comes to sleep. Your bed should primarily be a sacred space for you and your spouse. Allowing kids to sleep with you every night can lead to disruptions in your own sleep and intimacy. It’s crucial to teach your children to sleep in their own beds while providing comfort and security in their rooms.

Your bedroom should be your sanctuary and place where you can your spouse can connect.

2. Put Your Marriage First

Your marriage was there before the children came along, and it will remain long after they’ve left the nest. Nurturing your relationship with your spouse should be a top priority.

Regular date nights, quality time together, and open communication are essential to keep the flame of your marriage burning. By putting your marriage first, you create a loving and stable environment for your children to grow and learn from.

Putting your marriage first isn’t about time, it is prioritizing time necessary to keep your marriage strong. We know that you may spend most of your time with your kids, but you have to prioritize time for your relationship. When you prioritize time for your relationship, that is putting your marriage first.

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3. Establish Curfews for Your Bedroom and Alone Time

Designate specific times when your bedroom becomes an adults-only space. Setting curfews for your bedroom and alone time is crucial for maintaining intimacy and privacy. It allows you to connect emotionally and physically without the constant presence of little ones. This can also set a precedent for respect for personal space and boundaries in your children’s lives.

Your kids will learn how importance your marriage is and respect that when you set curfews and boundaries.

4. Be on the Same Team. Be One Together. Don’t Parent Differently

Consistency in parenting is key. To ensure a strong and united front, it’s vital for parents to be on the same page when it comes to discipline and decision-making. Communicate openly with your spouse about your parenting philosophies and values, and work together to find common ground. Children can pick up on inconsistencies and may exploit them.

Being a united team not only strengthens your marriage but also provides a sense of security and stability for your kids.

5. Share Responsibilities

Maintain a fair division of household and parenting responsibilities. Balancing these duties ensures that neither partner feels overwhelmed or resentful. Sharing the load can reduce stress and foster a stronger sense of relationship.

6. Respect Each Other’s Parenting Styles

While you aim for consistency, it’s important to respect each other’s unique parenting styles and strengths. Differences can complement each other and create a well-rounded approach to parenting. Avoid criticism or undermining your partner’s methods, and instead, collaborate to find middle ground when necessary.

7. Model a Healthy Relationship

Remember that your relationship serves as a model for your children. Demonstrating a loving, respectful, and healthy partnership sets the standard for what they should expect in their own future relationships.

In conclusion, setting boundaries as parents is essential to ensure a better marriage while raising children. By not allowing your kids to sleep in your bed, putting your marriage first, establishing curfews for your bedroom and alone time, and parenting as a united team, you can create a loving and stable family environment.

These boundaries will not only benefit your marriage but also serve as a valuable example for your children as they grow and navigate their own relationships in the future.

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