We all know marriage takes a lot of work and effort to make it successful. But do you ever look at some couples and it looks like they are truly happy and have everything together? You wonder “what are their secrets?” Although every marriage is unique, there are some secrets that almost all happy couples do to a successful marriage that can help them build a strong and lasting relationship.
In this article, we will cover some of these key secrets that successful marriages implement, and how they can contribute to a successful marriage for you.
Communication
Communication is “the” key to a successful marriage. Couples who communicate effectively are more likely to resolve conflicts, understand each other’s needs and desires, and build a deeper emotional connection. Good communication involves active listening, expressing oneself clearly, and being open and honest with each other.
If you have trouble communicating as a couple, this area alone will transform your marriage if you can learn how to communicate about everything in your relationship. If you need help with communication, you may want to listen to podcast 128. What Do You Do When Your Spouse Won’t Talk About Sex…Or Other Tough Topics?
Trust
Trust is the foundation of any successful marriage. Couples who trust each other feel secure and safe in their relationship. Trust is built over time through honesty, reliability, and consistency in actions and words.
If trust has been lost in your relationship from some past experiences, it is vital that you can forgive and move on. You may also want to establish some boundaries in your relationship which can help you learn to trust each other. Here is a great podcast 109. What Are The Differences Between Rules And Boundaries… And Why You Should Consider Boundaries To Protect Your Marriage.
We have dealt with trust issues in our marriage and as many of you know, because of Nick’s financial infidelity in the marriage, it caused a lot of trust issues. Trust can be earned back in marriage, but it takes time.
Respect
Respect is crucial for a successful marriage. Couples who respect each other’s feelings, opinions, and boundaries are more likely to have a happy and fulfilling marriage. Respecting each other also involves treating each other with kindness, empathy, and compassion.
Shared Values
Shared values are important for a successful marriage. Couples who share similar values and goals are more likely to build a strong and lasting relationship. Shared values can include beliefs about family, religion, career, finances, and personal growth.
It is important to sit down together and discuss what your values and goals are as a couple to make sure you are on the same page with what your values and goals are!
Emotional And Sexual Intimacy
Emotional AND sexual intimacy are vital aspects of a successful marriage. Couples who share emotional and sexual intimacy feel close, connected, and secure in their relationship. Emotional intimacy involves sharing thoughts, feelings, and experiences with each other in a safe and supportive environment.
Sexual intimacy means connecting sexually and making it a priority in your marriage. It is very difficult for couples to have good emotional intimacy, but no sexual intimacy or vice versa, unless there is a physical condition keeping them from the sexual intimacy.
We have talked to thousands of couples and couples that have good marriages almost ALL the time have good sexual and emotional intimacy in the relationship. If you want to have a good marriage and relationship, you need to make both emotional and sexual intimacy a top priority!
Check out this great article: Are toxic emotional and sexual intimacy games being played in your marriage?
Compromise
Compromise is essential for a successful marriage. Couples who are willing to compromise and find solutions that work for both spouses are more likely to have a happy and fulfilling marriage. Compromise involves finding common ground, being flexible, and valuing each other’s opinions.
Forgiveness
Forgiveness is crucial for a successful marriage. Couples who forgive each other for mistakes, misunderstandings, and hurtful actions are more likely to build a strong and lasting relationship. Forgiveness involves letting go of grudges, showing empathy, and working together to move forward.
A successful marriage requires effort, dedication, and commitment. Communication, trust, respect, shared values, emotional intimacy, compromise, and forgiveness are some of the secrets to a successful marriage. While every marriage is unique, incorporating these secrets into your relationship can help you build a strong and lasting union with your spouse.
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