Another great title to this blog article may be “Why you should be grateful for what you have instead of complaining about what you don’t have.” We see a lot of couples that think the grass is greener on the other side, but watching Married At First Sight has taught us how we should be grateful for what we have together.
One of the reasons we wanted to watch the show is because we have had a couple of the couples that have stayed married promote and use our app (The Ultimate Intimacy App).
Every time we watch the show, we look at each other and express how grateful we are to be married to each other. Now, let’s jump in.
“Married At First Sight” is a reality TV show that has taken the world by storm, captivating audiences with its unique concept of matching couples who get married without ever seeing each other beforehand.
While the show’s primary focus is on these daring unions, it has also imparted valuable lessons that extend far beyond the confines of television entertainment.
You can also hear us talk about this on our podcast titled: The Priceless Things We Learned About Marriage From Watching Married At First Sight.
In this article, we share our thoughts and insights to what we’ve learned from watching this show and how they can be applied to real-life relationships. Let us know if you agree or disagree.
Love Is Rare
One of the most striking lessons from “Married At First Sight” is the realization that falling in love is not a given. Many of the couples on the show enter marriage with high hopes, but the reality is that love is not something you can simply wait for. It’s not a passive emotion that magically appears; it requires active effort and investment. If you’re fortunate enough to have found love with your spouse, count your blessings, for it is a rare and beautiful gift.
While many couples look perfectly matched on paper, it is amazing how most of them simply don’t, or can’t fall in love. Love between two people can be rare.
Love Takes Work
Love is not just a feeling; it’s a journey that requires continuous effort and dedication. The show highlights how some couples sit back and passively wait for love to happen, only to be disappointed. In contrast, successful couples understand that building emotional intimacy and genuine connections take work.
If you and your spouse have put in the effort to nurture your love, you’re on the right path.
Physical Attraction Matters
Physical attraction is a significant component of romantic relationships. The show often demonstrates that a lack of physical attraction can hinder emotional connection.
If you and your spouse are physically attracted to each other, consider it a blessing, as it can help deepen your emotional bond.
Another interesting thing is no matter how physically attractive a couple is to each other, that attraction can leave quickly if the emotional intimacy is not good.
Emotional Intimacy Is the Foundation
While physical attraction is important, emotional intimacy is the bedrock of any lasting relationship. Many couples on the show find their initial chemistry fading when they lack emotional intimacy and a solid foundation.
If you and your spouse have built a strong emotional connection, cherish it.
Communication Is Key
Effective communication is a linchpin of successful relationships. “Married At First Sight” frequently showcases couples who struggle to express their feelings or hold back on sharing their emotions, leading to resentment and issues.
If you and your spouse can communicate openly and honestly, you’re ahead of the game.
You may also enjoy this great article How To Have Effective Communication With Your Spouse.
Compatibility Matters
Even the most seemingly perfect couples can struggle with compatibility issues. The show demonstrates how personalities and preferences can clash, leading to conflicts.
If you and your spouse get along harmoniously, appreciate the gift of your compatible relationship.
Success Is Not Guaranteed
The fact that many couples on the show, despite being matched by experts, do not succeed in their marriages highlights that successful relationships are far from guaranteed. Relationships that have a deeper, more meaningful foundation tend to have a higher chance of success.
If you and your spouse have been brought together by fate or faith, it’s something truly special.
Hidden Issues
“Married At First Sight” also unveils the reality that people often carry unresolved issues and toxic behaviors into relationships. It is amazing how most of the individuals on the show have some serious issues that start manifesting as they get to know each other.
At the start of the show, you think “oh, these are some great couples that look like they are going to get a long well” and then things start coming out.
If you and your spouse are in a marriage free from such issues, consider it a blessing and strive to maintain a healthy, loving environment.
Gratitude Is Key
Perhaps the most crucial lesson we can glean from the show is the importance of gratitude. After watching episodes, we often find ourselves overwhelmed with appreciation for our own relationship.
Instead of dwelling on what’s lacking, focus on what you have in your marriage. For many, it’s a dream come true.
Conclusion
“Married At First Sight” serves as a mirror reflecting both the challenges and beauty of romantic relationships. Watching the show, we gain a greater appreciation for the love we’ve found and the work we’ve put into our relationships. Love is a rare and precious gift, and recognizing its true value is something we should all strive for in our own lives.
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