05 Jan

A new year marks a fresh start—an opportune moment to fortify the foundations of your marriage and foster deeper intimacy with your spouse.

In 2024, consider implementing these five straightforward yet transformative goals that can pave the way to ultimate intimacy and a stronger, more connected relationship. Trust us, they will transform your relationship!

1. Reevaluate Screen Time and Social Media Usage

In today’s digital age, excessive screen time and social media consumption can encroach upon the quality time spent together as a couple. Make a conscious effort to limit screen time and prioritize real-time interactions.

Designate specific periods to disconnect from devices and engage in meaningful conversations or shared activities, thus fostering a deeper connection.

Check out this great article: The Dark Side of Connectivity: How Social Media Is Destroying Marriages.

2. Revamp Date Nights with Thoughtful Planning

Revitalize your date nights by injecting enthusiasm and effort into the planning process. Go beyond the usual routine and brainstorm exciting activities that resonate with both spouses. Whether it’s trying new experiences, exploring nature, or simply enjoying a cozy evening at home, the key is to cherish these moments and revel in each other’s company.

Remember, plan something special and out of the ordinary.

3. Prioritize Intimacy: Make Sex a Priority

Intimacy is a cornerstone of a thriving relationship. Make a commitment to prioritize physical intimacy by aiming for regular moments of connection.

Set a goal of engaging in intimate activities at least 1-2 times per week. Communication and mutual understanding are essential in ensuring both spouses feel valued and satisfied in this aspect of the relationship.

Check out podcast episode: 198. How Often Should Married Couples Be Sexually Intimate? What Do The Statistics Tell Us Is Ideal For Acheiving The Greatest Happiness?

This is one of the most commonly asked questions: How often should married couples be having sex and what is ideal to achieve the greatest happiness?

In this episode Nick and Amy share the poll results from their audience asking this question, and also share what MANY experts and studies have shown to back it up. We think this episode can be a great help to finding a balance in your relationship that works for you both.

4. Create a Vision Board Together

Craft a shared vision board that encapsulates your aspirations as a couple. Include goals you both aspire to achieve—whether it’s traveling to new destinations, professional accomplishments, or personal growth milestones. Having a visual representation of your joint ambitions serves as a powerful reminder and motivation to work towards them together.

Why Every Married Couple Should Make A Vision/Goal Board.

5. Implement Weekly Marriage Meetings

Establish a dedicated time each week for a comprehensive marriage meeting. This session can cover various aspects vital to your relationship’s health and growth.

Discuss and strategize how you’ll accomplish your goals, address financial matters, delve into family dynamics, and openly communicate about your sex life. These meetings foster transparency, strengthen communication, and ensure alignment in pursuing shared objectives.


Implementing these five simple yet impactful goals in 2024 can significantly enhance the intimacy and strength of your marriage.

By consciously prioritizing quality time, intimacy, shared aspirations, and open communication, you pave the way for a more fulfilling and connected relationship. Remember, the essence lies not just in setting these goals but in actively working together as a team to achieve them, ultimately nurturing a bond that grows stronger with each passing day.

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